It is a true soul mate aspect, to me. This is a general rule, my Friend. My Nessus square his Venus I wouldnt think my mars/Pluto semisextile is as strong though it can do damage. 4. Required fields are marked *. If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. I also have moon trine neptune, venus conjunction chiron snd more aspects to do with empathy. Check out our 40+ page relationship astrology eBook! Eros & Psyche in. That is why it is so powerful. Deep soul love, incredibly painful at times. I am worried about being the abuser here. I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. Also, there is no abuse either way. To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. Eros: Synastry Aspects . Yes very passionate.50shades of grey is just childplay. Nessus conj the NN in the natal would be a person who would likely be abusive. Things to look for in synastry: Here we focus on indications of sexual attraction using Astrology as our tool. The first would be Nessus. I know it is not funny but the charts will play out, in my experience, anyway. And posting my charf sounds like fun, I just might . Not all people with a prominent Dejanira are victims I disagree.I think they will be until they can truly overcome it with God. With any Chiron aspect to the other persons Juno, there was a wound created through marriage in a past life. Sometimes I nurture sometimes he does. I hope I can do this in my articles. Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. Where did you get these theories from? I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. A later relationship was abusive (a psychopath) His Nessus square my Sun Try to post the charts so see a visual! I just never have, not that it is not good. My Dejanira is in 5 Sag, like his North Node. He has a strong nessus (conjunct with his sun + true node in cancer ). Grace dear I know there are astrologers who make every aspect positive but I dont think that is real and real is what heals and real is what gets people mad at you too lol. Pluto trine Venus, Venus quincunx Pluto I am looking to add 5 more aspects and would love your opinions! Ami, no one can describe astrology better than you. His Eros is on her Descendant and her Eros makes a square to his Sun and conjuncts his Vertex. The Lilith person brings sexual energy that is literally untamed. Your articles hit me hard again:-). Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) Lilith and Ceres conjunct in the synastry chart Your rebellious free spirit and nurturing sides are enmeshed. It may be the abuse takes place in the home or within the family. Hardly. My first husband was abusive His Nessus conjunct my Descendant I wonder what do you think it would happen when nessus conjuncts nessus in synastry. Moon/Pluto in a trine is very powerful, too. Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? My eros was conjunct someone's mars and I did feel like whenever he was sexual, it was very erotic. I sense Saggi. The Lilith conjunct Mars synastry aspect means that this relationship is made up of two fighters. there is no contact in real life anymore but the connection via the sexual chakra (either sacral or root chakra ) is still there and very strong. I know this is an article for synastry, but Im a little worried about my natal chart after reading about Nessus and Dejanira. (both in Capricorn) Hi, anyone can tell me more about a double whammy Pluto-Venus? However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. They have a very imaginative sex life. I still talk to him to this day and I honestly will never forget how magnetic this relationship was. If you know, let me know! That is the nature of the DSC. (Conjunction, Opposition, Trine, Sextile, Square! tell me your story, if you care to, Juice dear. Have you tried? Ami, hello. If you see Moon oppose or square Pluto, dont play with the person. The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. Also, I try to be very direct to counter the tendency in many Astrologer not to take a stand. Two celestial bodies are in conjunction when they are very close to each other, often in the same sign but never more than 8 degrees apart. "I want to welcome you to my website. It is sad! His makes two major squares to her inner planets. I never heard of these asteroids, especially being linked to abusers and victims. If one does not see any abuse when this happens, my opinion would be that they dont know the person enough lol. That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. For more context, Nessus/BML dont aspect anything else except a grand trine with Mercury/MC and Jupiter. We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. Which probably held it together for SO long. His moon also conjunct my IC, orb 1. I do keep finding myself attracted to people who seem to have a strong primal power under the surface, and I dont really feel connected to Pluto myself (I dont know if thats on purpose or simply because its otherwise weakly aspected in my chart). These are too many questions for text. Thank You so much for this info. Eros wants intense encounters that lead to lasting transformation. I have moon opposition pluto. You do not have to do their chart. Eros is also prominent in their synastry. You are welcome to your opinion but I stand on what I wrote. The pairing can easily fulfill the other's sexual desires and unlock some of their naughty fantasies. Does that fit and I applaud your willingness to face yourself. Ceres person appreciates this, as they typically focus more on caregiving than on their own inner desires. That is most certainly not the truth. Well, maybe, but dont most abusers have a history of childhood abuse themselves? Hi Groom conjunct the Vertex. I know this came off a bit more forward, but only because I want to make it clear that one persons feelings are not fact. What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect. Unlike Juno/Saturn aspects, Juno in aspect with the South Node does not necessarily indicate that marriage in this life will be a force. Saturn draws the couple together due to karma, but Juno and South Node aspects offer more of a choice. Is it a similar power to the conjunction? She is deeply alluring and irresistible. I dont believe in past lives, Lo. I also have Nessus in 22 Virgo exactly opposite my Sun, conjunct my Asc in 18 Virgo, and I am NOT an abuser, unless its in self defense.Either way, I dont enjoy hurting people. Great primal connection with fighting lol. And my dejanira conjunct his Venus. It creates a synastry energy where all the houses for the whole chart are conjunct to their opposite house in the partner's chart. Eros is looking for his equal to explore the realm of creative intimacy. I would say that this relationship would be INTENSE but in a beautiful way.Please, tell me about it! Can this aspect be calmed down by a Mars conjunct Saturn contact? or you consider just the closer orbit? I am honored to have you as a valued member of my website family , Ivs, why dont you come put your chart in my Personal Readings Forum. I'm really only just starting to get to know Eros well, and Lilith is still somewhat elusive. thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. Keep in mind that conjunctions are the most important, but other aspects can occasionally speak to marriage. I have Dejanira in Pisces in the 4H. It does indicate that both partners knew each other in a past life, but other romantic aspects are needed in the chart to create an energy strong enough for a marriage. To me, it always is. But I do see this possibly helping people with many bad aspects that could show any possibility of abuse in their own chart already whom have actually been through anything so that this can help them feel validated about past or current pains, but its not good to deem things as going to play out in time just because they havent yet in a long standing, healthy relationship. I am the nessus person and I admit to having some devious tendencies towards anyone with neptune in that position. If you see any intense conjunctions between the Sun, the Moon, Juno, the South Node, Saturn, Venus, Mars, Lilith, etc. Please, keep giving your opinion. I know this is not my website, so I cannot change how you write and it is not my business to dictate how you write. This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isnt as heavy. I believe her Dejanira is conjunct his Nessus by one degree. Nessus conjuncts BML, and Dejanira conjuncts DSC and Pluto. Will be keeping my wits about me. Thanks SO much for your kind words. You say that you want a nuclear passionate relationship. Her NN on his 7th makes me think its a past life hold. Amazing emotional+sexual chemistry though there was some bumps in the way. In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. There`s also lot of growth and sweetness and nothing that amounts to abuse. Thank you, They play out to have a certain pattern to the relationship. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. I seem to be one of the rare people doing it lol. When the son grows up, he will likely be the abuser,too. His sun/jupiter/neptune/venus are on my venus/saturn trouble spot in scorp. Im trying really, really hard not to jump to conclusions, so any help or advice you could give would be very much appreciated. If you want to end it, be upfront and be kind. There is always a risk with Eros when he falls on a personal planet of point, and meeting Lilith is the greatest of them. I have my dejanira conjuct by one degree with my AC line. Who is whom? It may seem challenging but we share many conjunctions and trines/sextiles. Yeah, the They may not be able to see what you are up and you could use this for your gain fits perfectly. Eros in a synastry chart. Nonetheless, your interpretation of dejanira and nessus is intriguing. (double-whammy..) I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. 3. Youll always want to look at the chart as a whole, read everything as a metaphors, and use your intuition. I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours. Thank you, amiann. ? For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. He has pholus conjunct dejanira, all on my BML exact. It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. This transit is positive as well as painful, destructive and revelatory. Maybe you felt this way sometimes given your Lilith-Eros contacts, but I was certainly the one more outwardly angry when the mess finally hit the fan. Not eros. How do we honor Lilith in our lives? The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. Lilith brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger and rage. Nessus conj the NN in synastry would make me RUN and fast lol. Synastry When a person's natal moon forms a conjunction with someone's Eros, or vice versa, this can be a very sexualbut very intenserelationship. We are mesmerized, enchanted, and even obsessed with this person. In some past life, at some point, weve been married to almost everyone weve dated or had some type of relationship with. Your feelings are not fact. Come and post the charts. hmm well I dont really have his birth time lol so I just went by the general aspects, so I can see what he does to my moon and where his planets fall in my houses but not vice versa. Isis is extreme devotion to the partner in the bravest, most selfless way possible. Still, even without the conjunction, I have Nessus in the 1st house, which would make me abusive, according to these theories, and I dont fit. I, always, have people want to tell me that Nessus is not always abuse. It is not as intense as the conjunction but very intense, nonetheless. All this is square my Moon. That is my commitment to my readers. Thank you Ivs. Thank you for your comment. Thats why its so weird bc it is a very good longterm relationship. And when you really think about it this line of thought deserve to be abused is quite sociopathic in nature. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? Oh dear, I am soooooo freaked out!!!!!!! Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. She is deeply alluring and irresistible. A Sun conjunct Lilith transit highlights the power traits like charisma, magnetism, emotional force and leadership qualities of the Sun. so what would it be? You are very welcome, my Friend. Ami, Christian Psychic Readings & Astrology Charts for All Faiths. I wasnt abused as a child in any way. I really have not looked at these aspects in signs, though. Retro makes one thoughtful, so I do not see it as bad as many do. Pluto conjunct Sun synastry indicates a powerful and transformative relationship. I reply to the comments out of order because I do it on the central comment form. Eros is a spicy little asteroid who generates excitement in relationship astrology. My Pluto opposite his Moon. I have looked at them unto themselves but everything matters so I will start to incorporate signs and houses. It is typical cat and mouse game with taboo twists. It wasn't until he began to withhold sex from me that I finally crumbled. If one person's Sun is conjunct Saturn and the other persons Eros is opposite Pluto, the contact will be quite different than if the Sun was conjunct Jupiter and Eros opposite Venus. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. How will these aspects play out? Notify me of follow-up comments by email. I have to always be honest. Composite: moon conjunct Neptune, Venus square Pluto, Black moon lilth conjunct Pluto square mars conjunct ceres..any explanations on this type of relationship would be very helpful!!?? His Nessus makes no major aspect to my planets, except a 3 orb trine to my Mercury and North Node, and Vertex..could this mean well step on each others toes when it comes to reaching our goals? Currently you have JavaScript disabled. 1) What does it mean to have dejanira 13 in conjuction with my ascendant 12? We are not discussing potential long-term compatibility between the sexes, not the love match-rather, signs of initial sexual attraction and knee-jerk reactions between two people. Lilith conjunct Ascendant I am not asking you to do mine either. In our synastry chart we have moon trine pluto and mars square pluto. When Eros touches the Sun, the energy of both the Sun and Eros awaken between . My Fortuna conjuncts precisely his Dejanira and Moon. There is attraction based on dark forces like rage, pain and abuse. Is it relevant? The exception would be the person who overcame it through God. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? What conjuncts your Aura? Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. Is there any way this could play out in a positive manner or should I watch my back? I dont mean to, but I think I find issues/hurts of my friends and partners and end up trying to mother them if thats what you meant. I am prone to being attacked in this way. thank you again for being so welcoming, Thank you so much, Sovietlana! What about this aspects? Uranus is kink, so you do the math. The chart allows one to see oneself. Theyre still deeply in love and their synastry and composite charts support it. Most potent are Eros-Venus, Eros-Ascendant, Eros-Psyche, and Eros-Mars links. I am Sag with rising capricorn and he is Capricorn w/rising Sag. I have BML in my 1st house in Scorpio along with Venus and Saturn All are in conjunction with BML. Hi Amiann In mythology, Eros was the god of sexual love and desire. crap. I was shocked to see it in this couples charts. Lovely, Lo! Crow Symbolism: Spiritual Meaning Of The Crow, 6 Effective Studying Spells For Exams, Class, & Enhanced Focus, Winter Solstice & Yule: Rituals, Traditions, And Ways To Celebrate. Thank you Ariel! his moon is in cancer so depending on what time hes born, there are 2 scenarios :1) my Saturn squares his moon but my sun and north node would conjunct it 2) my Pluto would square his moon but our moons would be in trine. Posts: 9778 From: Death Star . Thanks for your help Amiann. I dont really understand the aspect you are asking about. Would an eighth house overlay make these destructive or strengthen ? I think you will have the urge to abuse. Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. DO they have Moon trine Moon or Moon conjunct Moon. Can it be dangerous amiann? These parts of you would flow well i.e may not play out in actual asbuse but would still be issues you both would deal with i.e abuse/victimhood imo I have not seen the trine in actual charts, dean. Eros Synastry Aspects: The asteroid, Eros, represents erotic love, sex, passion and intimacy. I had a very intense, psychically damaging and life changing relationship with a man whose Eros was directly conjunct my Lilith, and also more loosely conjunct my Neptune & Descendant. It seems like sexual abuse is an emotional theme that I am working with in this life. To me, you may really struggle with falling into the victim role and would have to keep pulling yourself up over and over until you get real traction which could take some time, oh im sorry. I can relate to everything Ive read from you. How about choose one aspect and I will try to help, T. Not to be rude, but this is incredibly fatalistic. I am not surprised this happened to you. And how did you arrive at the conclusion that Nessus and Dejanira are indicative of abuse? If you do this, Astrology will serve its purpose, which is to warn and alert people to possible problems and even dangers. I think her NN is right on his 7th house axis for one. However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? its more like the astrology helps me to fill in the pictures. There is also a near-exact conjunction of his north node to my Eros. Your email address will not be published. Your passions are overwhelming, spontaneous, and you develop your attractions without even thinking about it. Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a. His Amor is in trine and sextile to a few of her inner planets. Moon/Pluto as a conjunction is not dark , per se. Vertex conjunct the ascendant is a frequent synastry aspect in the charts of romantic partners. Is there anything I can do to help her? . There is no superficial way to get to know Lilith through the experience of the erotic. Juno aspecting the South Node simply means that the pair was married (in some way) in a past life, or had a longterm marriage-like relationship. That is why I, affectionately, call them too hot not to cool down. There are certain aspects I see in these dark,nuclear passion relationships. There are many, many possibilities in astrology, even infinite if Im speaking on the complexity of each persons chart. If someone does not want to accept the truth, that is their choice, but I, personally, will not do their chart. What about mars, Saturn and Jupiter in Virgo? Nessus and Dejanira do most certainly not mean abuse. Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. The wonderful thing about this aspect, especially with the conjunction is that love is brought into the lives of both, even if . Conjunction, Opposition, Square, and Trine! If anything, Ive suffered abuse from others at times. Im curious about that conjunction to my crushs NN, though..do you really think it could mean something? You truly made my day! The ex that abused me while I was pregnant had his Nessus conjunct my MC. When she contacts Eros in another, the answer to that question is found in the heart of a powerfully erotic relationship. Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. Lol just noticed what you wrote at the end about Mars/Uranus, sorry! the reason this is the case is that Mars is sexual drive( all drives actually). His natal mars, lilith, pluto conjunction is conjunct my ic and I've distanced myself from him knowing that he has wayyyy too much power over me, but every time I see him I can barely stand and immediately start shaking I am glad my post was helpful! Im not meaning to argue if it sounds like it, its just damaging for ignorant people to come find posts saying that bad asteroids are always going to play out no matter what they do because that leads them to believe that everything in astrology is linear and has only a small set of possibilities that people cannot escape. His 8th house Nessus is conjunct my 7th house Dejanira (2s), opposite my moon (-1s) and square my mercury (2a). I asked if I could post their charts but my friend isnt comfortable with it. A recent past life will influence every bit of the relationship you have now.